One of the most confusing things about honorifics is that the choice of respectful or humble terms depends on the person you are talking about.（敬語について最も混乱しやすいのが、尊敬語（そんけいご）を使うのか、謙譲語（けんじょうご）を使うかが、話す相手によってかわるということです。）For instance, when Japanese people talk with others about family members or people at ...