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PHYSICAL HUMAN PARTINGS, BUT NEW BEGINNINGS?

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HAPPY EASTER IN HEAVEN! HAPPY EASTER IN HEAVEN!
Fred, my brother-in-law, was 94 years old and passed this week. The three remaining sibblings were there to bid him farewell to this human world! Fred now has the peace that he sought.

We gather and celebrate birth with joy. It is said that death brings equal joy and celebration with a gathering of friends and relatives. 

I'm sitting here with a smile because the "real Fred" no longer has human thoughts and is retired from his physical body CEO position. 

Fred had a cute smile and was noticed by all the girls. It was fun to go for a ride in his plane. He loved taking care of the women in his life and enjoyed meeting his friends at McDonalds and Burger King the last several years. Fred liked to read and when we got together, we often had these deep conversations about life.

Thanks Fred for paying for the wedding reception at the Moore Hotel in Ontario, OR, when Sam and I married. We were all poor in those days so that was a big deal. 

Thanks Fred for being part of my human life,
Dee

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Mercer Island Drill Team

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This was their performance in Yakima last Friday. This is the result of many practice sessions and dedication - Tuesday mornings 6:15am, Wednesday mornings 7am, Thursday mornings 6:15am.

Its a lot of fun to see our grandchildren participating in such events and learning the values of practice and discipline. 

The best part in watching the video is that they are a team and all of them have to be equally dedicated for it to work. Points are deducted if one participant, even slightly, not fully in light with the rest!

It is said by many that connection and working with others is our purpose in this life. For sure, it's beautiful to watch and fills me with hope for our future leaders!

The best part of the experience is that the team is also developing a sense of balance about competing and that it's not the most important to be first.

Granddaughter Kirin comments: "The team that got second is unhappy that they didn't get first place. I like that we were so excited to be fourth place!"

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CHERRY BLOSSOM TIME!!

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Here's my granddaughter's w... Here's my granddaughter's watercolor of the wonderful
Cherry blossoms along our streets.
This is March and what a treat to drive home along West Mercer way and be greeted with the Cherry blossoms every day.

We used to live on Seattle's Capitol Hill and there is a block between Aloha and Prospect on 22nd Avenue East. The whole street becomes white and pink? That includes the pavement itself as the blossoms fall!! It makes me want to hold my breath with the beauty of the scene. 

Cherry blossoms are a symbolic flower of the spring, a time of renewal, and the fleeting nature of life. Their life is very short. After their beauty peaks around two weeks, the blossoms start to fall.

My renewal thoughts are to continue on my path of learning new ways of being grateful. I am particularly grateful for the privilege of my life connections with others and hearing their stories. 

Yesterday, I had coffee with Rivian. She told me how her daughter, Leslie, collected rocks as a three-year-old and how she should have made it a garden. My response was that we have a three-year-old Berniedoodle, Suki. Suki finds rocks whereever we take her on her walks; picks them up in her mouth and brings them home. Everyone is welcome to come and see Suki's garden of rocks outside on our entry steps and in her box of toys. 

Unlike the fleeting scenery of Cherry Blossoms, the rocks are more permanent! But practicing to return to the beauty of the blossoms in my mind.

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BENEFITS OF LIVING IN A THREE-GENERATION-HOUSEHOLD!

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BENEFITS OF LIVING IN A THR...
Born in 1939, I was the Sansei (third generation of Japanese heritage) of the three-layer sandwich, with a widowed Japanese immigrant grandpa, his three Nisei (second generation) children and a son-in-law. That was a time in our American history when most of the Japanese immigrants were facing a lot of discrimination and the hardships of depression.

A little over a year earlier in November 1937, six families had caravanned east from the Seattle area to start their lives over again in Eastern Oregon and Western Idaho, there along the Snake River that divides Idaho and Oregon because the Owyhee Dam provided new farming opportunities. 

I was an infant and treated like a princess. Also living with my grandfather, and my adult uncles, I gained self-esteem and learned the Japanese language. Now, 84 years later, I value the heritage values of, commitment to the welfare of family and others, setting goals, working diligently and not quitting.

Five years ago, I became a widow. Three years ago, just before the Covid Pandemic Shut Down, my second daughter and her girls, 12 and 10, came to live with me. So now I’m the senior in our three-generation-household.

The girls are surrounded with the values that my husband and I created. If I am wise like my grandpa and not say too much, the girls listen to what I think. My purpose in life is to hand down our heritage values in the form of stories. There is no story that others have not similarly experienced.

The other day, I listened to Professor John Vervaeke and he made a statement: “Love is not a emotion or a feeling, Love is a commitment”.  After I heard that, it was time for me to pick the girls up from school. As I picked them up, I had them in the car with me and I was able to have a discussion about what they thought about that statement. 

Everyone shows up promptly when it’s dinner-time. It’s a habit and we are able to have a few discussions about our day. We’ve been slack in enforcing that each member of the family take turns and no one leaving the table until everyone has their turn, reminding me that it takes good parenting to keep these traditions going.

I have turned most of the household and responsibilities over to my daughter without any problems and we get along fine. But the girls have stated that we argue. So, I was working not to make disagreement statements. Then, I heard a lecture from Psychologist, Jordon Peterson. He says, “It’s important to verbalize our difference of opinion and we don’t have to avoid them. What’s important is that the children see how we resolve our differences, make-up and get along.”

I am on my way home to Seattle after staying 10 days with my Cousin Ron and his wife, Gay. Their son, his wife and two grandchildren live with them. We had long discussions about the benefits of living a three-generation-houshold life!

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Story About Mayor of Seattle's Heritage

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Mayor Bruce Harrel's grandm... Mayor Bruce Harrel's grandmother and Cherryland Florist
One of the stories featured at the OMOIDE STORIES AT THE REP last Sunday was written by Nancy Iishi Martos. Nancy wrote about her Grandmother Tameno creating Cherryland Florist in Seattle on Jackson Street. Rose was one of the youngest of 11, living in the back and helping with the business. Rose's son is Bruce Harrell. Mayor Harrell and his wife Joanne joined us for the Seattle REP theater event.

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OMOIDE AT THE SEATTLE REP THEATER

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Excited to be sharing Japanes... Excited to be sharing Japanese Heritage Values with OMOIDE stories! Granddaughter Kirin closing th... Granddaughter Kirin closing the evening at the Seattle REP Theater
Bringing "WINGS OF SOUND" to our OMOIDE stories
Here's what I basically said:

This is exciting! Thank you Nabra for this opportunity to share our OMOIDE (memories) stories. Why is the OMOIDE writing program important to me? Why do I want the Japanese Cultural and Community Center of Washington and our Japanese Heritage values to impact our community for the next 100 years? 

When our first daughter was born, we stared at the miracle of birth day and night whether she was asleep or awake. It occurred to me, “I may one day see great grandchildren?” I thought, “What can I think, do and say that will help our daughter see grand children that are Self Reliant, Responsible, Kind and Joyous contributors to their community?”

My second daughter and her two teenage daughters now live with me. My job has been to drive the girls to school and their activities. Therefore, I have them alone in the car with me many times. My mentors suggest the best way to parent teens is to tell stories. I feel good and I expect to live to see great grandchildren so I want to help them be part of a community of good parenting. 

I want to thank each of you here tonight and I also trust you will help us carry on this project, as we move forward.  Chuck Kato, Margaret Yasuda, Del Uchida, look what we started 30 years go with the discussions around my kitchen table!

Thank you to our coach, Janine. As we meet on the third Saturday of each month she reminds us, “Just put your thoughts and words down on the bloody paper!” 

We direct our stories to the fifth grade and keep it simple. We are looking to publish OMOIDE VI this next year. Nabra has arranged a table outside and you are welcome to purchase our books. Also, because of Raku’s story about Onigiris, Koichi on our JCCCW board, organized and will pass out the treat during the intermission. 

Thank you Paul for your composition and the credit you give to OMOIDE for your inspiration. Thank you actors and musicians for putting “wings of sound” to our OMOIDE stories.

Waking up at night and asking “Why” has been fruitful. I have 5 grandchildren. It is thrilling and fulfilling to see them contributing in various events of their choosing. Thank you Kirin for agreeing to participate tonight. With stories and good learning together, let’s make AMERICA A GOOD HOME!

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WOW ZAC YOU DID IT!!

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It's a big deal to be on the Sa... It's a big deal to be on
the Santa Barbara team as a freshman
When Zachary's mother, our first born arrived, we stared at the miracle saying, "Last year she was nothing." 

I often thought, "There is a good chance I will see great grandchildren. What can I think, do and say that will help influence them to be self-reliant, responsible, kind and joyfully contribute to their community?"

My mentors suggest the best way to parent teens is to tell stories. I have five grandchildren and three of them are teenagers. I feel good and expect to see some of my great grandchildren.

I will share this story of that first daughter, who has parented Zac to be responsible for consistent practice all these years. And it's a joy to be able to celebrate his part in taking the Santa Barbara swim team to a national championship.

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VALENTINES 2000

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“I love you” Gr... “I love you”
Growing up, we never heard
Showing our love
With simple caring actions was preferred.

Valentine Love
Always brought a Disney figurine
Decorating a box of Godiva Chocolates
for his queen.

It was 9am, Sam walked up the three flights of stairs, down the corridor west to his 423 office at the corner, as he had the previous thirty years with out ever missing - just as he never missed a day of school. He hung up his jacket and as he was putting on his white lab coat, he crossed the room to look out the window, turning on his radio on the way. 423 Goto Dental Lab was on the corner of the building looking down on Westlake Avenue and northwest to the front door of the Westin Hotel. The Westin was where a lot of celebrities visiting Seattle stayed, including Presidential Candidates and he wrote about them in his book 58 YEARS IN THE MEDICAL DENTAL BULDING.

Around noon, he took his self-made bento from his office fridge, warmed it up in his microwave and sat at his desk in the foyer of his one-unit dental lab. He always kept his door ajar with a brick and was never short of visitors who popped in for a chat or a patient who was sent to him for a tooth shade. He always came home with a story or two like meeting James Washington the famous sculptor; Ralph Monroe, Secretary of State or Chihuly, the glass artist.

Lunch break gave him a chance to think of the fact that this day was Valentine’s Day. Finishing his last bites of brown rice and last night’s leftover Oxtail soup, he took off his white lab jacket, put on his Jacket with all the pockets, headed downstairs, out the front of the building, turned left and around the block to the Bartell Drug Store door on 5th Avenue. He picked up his usual small box of Godiva chocolates, added a 4inch caricature of Charlie Brown and went to the card section to find a funny card.


At home on Mercer Island’s Allen Street, Dee, remembering that this day was Valentine’s, finished sweeping the kitchen and hand vacuuming the entry stairs. She put on her Peruvian heavy & warm brownish coat and got in their new white Infinity sedan bonus car from their nutrition & counseling business. Heading across the Lacey V. Murrow floating bridge, south on Rainier Avenue, she came to the Mutual Fish Market thinking, “Spending fifty dollars on fresh frozen crab and fresh raw tuna is our food budget for our whole week, but this is Valentine’s.” Harry Yoshimura, the owner, was in his office and Dee stopped to have a short conversation. On the way home, she stopped at Island Books for a card and had another fun conversation with its owner Richard.

About 6pm, Dee could hear the ’64 Mustang roaring up the steep hill and parking in the carport in front of Sam’s green ’49 Chevrolet Pickup from off his Brother’s Quincy, Washington farm. The white pedestal round table, one of their first furniture purchases from KCW Furniture, was set, with the set of special Japanese style blue flowered, rice bowl, variety of small dishes for condiments and chop sticks holder, from cousin Miyo. It was placed on the bluish placemat bought when they once entertained the Mayor of Mercer Island, Aubrey Davis and his wife Henrietta, who was daughter Kelly’s 3rd & 4th grade teacher.  

Sam came in the door saying, “Hi Mandie” He was greeted at the door by the Lhasa apso and Dee at the top of the stairs. Taking off his Jacket and hanging it up in the hall closet, feeding Mandie was first before sitting down at the table. 

As Sam quietly raved about the satisfying bites of dinner, “Ahh Uhmmmmmmm”,  he got up and went back to the hall closet. He got a paper bag, handing it to Dee, saying, “Here’s a little nothing.” They exchanged cards, smiled and celebrated another fun Valentine in their lives. 



While “love” is an ultimate ideal to reach for with words and events; keeping it simple and casual as well as finding love in the daily actions made life meaningful and fulfilling. The victory is that there were strong wills and major differences involved, needing discussions and the “purpose in life” of passing on a legacy, of heritage values, to future generations.  It worked for 56 years!!


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STORIES AT THE PANAMA #9

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STORIES AT THE PANAMA #9

Yesterday, we had another fun session of story telling at the Panama Tea and Coffee. About 15 individuals joined us for conversation on our 9th session since we started last May 2022. It’s particularly interesting to find the Panama Hotel an INTERSECTION and crossroads of people from all around the USA and the world.



Avery grew up in Ohio and is part of a family interested in history. She finds Japanese Kimono and things Japanese of particular interest and has come to stay at the Panama and help Jan Johnson, owner of the hotel. Avery is most impressed with how Jan has created vintage decor in several of the rooms: The Writer’s Room, Ladies Room, Hairdo Room, Chickadee Room, Bamboo Room.


Khulan shared about coming to the USA from Mongolia, sandwiched between Russia and China. She met her husband Jason here and they have traveled the US, but find Seattle the most comfortable saying, “I feel like my own person and not an Asian that looks different.” She brought some of her Mongolian friends and says there is a count of around 3000 who live with us here in the greater Seattle area. 

Of particular interest was her comments about the Mongolian history of Russia protecting them from Japanese and making everyone equal with the Russian philosophy of government control of all their possessions and equal redistribution. The Mongolian People were also no longer able to practice their own ancient religions and philosophy of life. Khulan adds, “I have both good and bad feelings about Russia at this time.” We all shuttered as Khulan shared that it was 32 degrees below zero this day in Mongolia - the coldest capital in the world.

Gary shared about his Nisei friend, Shigeo Iwamura, who was a flight instuctor for Kamikazi Pilots (human bombs idea started in the Phillipines) in Japan. Shigeo’s family had moved back to Japan in 1932.  It’s speculated that Shigeo was determined to fit in and was caught up in national piety.

There was a healthy discussion of the term “Kokutai” - loyalty to the country of Japan and the emperor (representing the unbroken lineage from the Goddess Amaterasu) during WWII in Japan. Michi talked about women’s group and children in school, during the war, who practiced with wooden swords, and bamboo spears, who were trained to defeat American soldiers. Most of the younger Japanese don’t even know about such efforts as these stories were stricken from all literature. Currently, “Kokutai” only refers to national sports events. 

Raku shared how she, as a toddler, was buried under rubble on August 5th, 1945, when her house in Kyushu was bombed. She was coincidentally at a University of WA social event years later and may have met the pilot of the plane that dropped the bomb. 

Nothing like stories from different perspectives that help us learn for a better tomorrow.


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OMOIDE STORIES AT THE SEATTLE REP THEATER

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OMOIDE STORIES AT THE SEA... OMOIDE a project of the JAPA... OMOIDE a project of the JAPANESE CULTURAL AND COMMUNITY CENTER OF WASHINGTON
OMOIDE writing program stories at the JCCCW are being featured in a program at the SEATTLE REP theater as part of their outreach program.

One of the stories will highlight the history of one of our Seattle community Leaders.

Come and join us and help us continue to celebrate our 30 years of sharing OMOIDE stories at the "J".

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